If you have been dumped by your girlfriend you must be really hurting right now and the only thing on your mind is how to find a way get her back again. But before you go rushing in and doing anything drastic you need to sit down and work out just how you are going to get your girl back. If you make the wrong moves you could easily screw things up and ruin any chances you had of getting your girlfriend back.
Do You Really Love Her?
The first thing you need to do to ask yourself if you really love her? This may seem an odd question but you should think about it very carefully. Sometimes we just think we love someone because we are so used to them. They feel comfortable and familiar. Even if you are arguing all the time and at odds with each other, you get so used to this way of life that you simply accept things as they are.
Changes can be hard to make but if you decide that you don't love your girlfriend after all, then the break up was really for the best.
Apologise To Her
Try to figure out where it all went wrong. Maybe it was something you said or did wrong. Perhaps you neglected her and took her for granted. When you are in a relationship it is too easy to get complacent and take your partner for granted. Most girls need to have lots of love and affection. The need to feel special and cherished. Those 3 little words, "I love you" mean so much to a girl and yes maybe they should know you love them, but girls like to hear it said to them every now and then.
So if you are guilty of neglecting your girlfriend or if there is something else you did wrong, you should apologise to her. Tell here how sorry you are and let her know how much she still means to you. A sincere apology and the willingness to put things right can sometimes work wonders.
Give Her Some Space
Now just leave her alone and let her have some space. You must respect her decision to break up with you and painful though it may be, just leave her alone for now. She will appreciate and respect you for this and it will show your maturity.
After a while when your girlfriend has been given enough space and has time to calm down she may contact you again or you may run into her when you are out. Either way, don't be pushy or try to force things with her. Just be friendly but aloof and let her do all the running. Show her just how mature and strong you have become.
These are just the first steps you should take after you have been dumped by your girlfriend. If you follow my advice you will definitely be on the right track to getting your girlfriend back.
Marian R Bond
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